For pregnancy:

  • not find out the gender
  • eat better
  • try and get my belly to suck back in afteerwards
  • better prepare for labour now that I know what to expect with a birth support person


For mothering:

  • I'm going to listen to my instincts more. I tried to this time, and I think I was spot on every time, but I quite often let other people make me doubt myself and my abilities.
  • Try and establish B/F a little more strongly. I had a rollercoaster ride with B/F right up until 6 months when things settled down. We fed until DS was 13 months.
  • Continue all the positive things I have done for my son with the new baby