We're not TTC but I want to start preconception care properly by next month. I think I'd like to try gender swaying but I'm not sure. I have two boys and I felt some gender loss for a girl but now I happily see us with three boys. Do you think swaying can bring up feelings of gender disappointment? I feel like I should give having a girl a whirl, but I don't want to be sad again if I don't have one.