My gorgeous fiancee and I have been TTC for about 2 years. I have PCOS and can't even remember the last time I had AF. We both decided towards end of last year that we will go see a FS etc, however I decided to wait until the start of this year - fresh start and everything. Our new years resolution to have a happy healthy baby by end of 09!
So on Monday it all begins for us. Am seeing the GP on monday to get a referral to a FS - depends on what they want to do to me first. I am feeling good about it don't feel too stressed as I am not sure what to expect and don't want to get too worked up over it. Just going to deal with it and take it all as it comes and think positive thoughts!
So hopefully seeing the GP on Monday will result in some good outcomes and good game plan for us and that our TTC journey will be a short one!
So my first meeting with the GP went really well. I went to her on recommendation from a friend (not because she has PCOS or is trying to conceive, just said she found her to be a good doctor). I was very nervous but all was good she is very good and pretty much have a plan laid out now. I'm having routine bloods tomorrow, have booked in for an ultrasound on friday - will go back next week to get the results of those and a pap smear at the same time (ugh I HATE them!)
I already have my referral too which is good (I decided to go with City Fertility Centre in melbourne- has anyone been here before??) - I did try and book in today I called the number on the website (for Melbourne) a receptionist answered, when I said I wanted to make an appt with said doctor she gave me another number to ring him on which I did and got the answering machine of his receptionist. I left a message but didn't get a call back today. So I'll ring again tomorrow. But it sounded as if I was ringing another location when I want to go to CFC because I actually know where it is! haha.
All in all I feel good about it, my doctor was positive about it as she said I was young and because we already know what the problem is - we can deal with it. So hopefully the FS will be good and a good quick outcome will ensue! My mum says try to get in with the FS asap as the waiting list could be awhile. But I will see what they say I just want to get all the tests etc done first and the results of all of those so he can decide where to go from there!
Not looking forward to having my blood taken though either - am a nurse and am happy to take others blood but when it's my own? Not a fan haha. Plus I am worried about the results (i.e. glucose intolerance, high chol.) fingers crossed xx
Hi MissyMoohoo,
I dug up this old post of mine as I thought some of the info in here may be of benefit to you. I have been down the allopathic medical route with severe endometriosis in the past (GPs, Gynocologists, Gastroenterologists etc) and in the end I finally found lasting releif with the help of a Naturopath. I attribute the birth of my healthy baby boy (through unassisted conception) to the following methods;
I am a self-confessed health passionist and it is my wish to work in Natural Fertility Management one day!! Sadly, there are just so many things that couples can do that doctors do not inform their patients about and it makes me so frustrated!!
Firstly, consider consulting a Naturopath specialised in natural fertility management. Most people make the doctor their first visit when having trouble conceiving, but there is actually very little that conventional medicine can offer apart from expensive procesdures and synthetic hormone drugs which arguably cause more harm to fertility. Naturopathic advised Pre-Conceptual Care Programs are tailored for the individual couples needs, and are much more successful in treating sub-fertility than the conventional medical sphere.
From a naturopathic perspective, the main reason couples are finding it so hard to fall pregnant these days is because of a significant increase in the amount of toxins absorbed and stored by our bodies. When the body reaches a certain state of toxicity, sperm stength and quality become poor. Even when the male sperm are strong, often the female body wont allow a pregancy to occur as it is protecting a potential baby from being exposed to toxins within her body. Toxicity comes in the form of pesticides in our food, heavy metals in our water, pollutants in the air, artificial birth control pills, alcohol, pharmaceutical drugs, toxic chemicals in personal care products such as deoderant, skin cream, etc- and this is just the tip of the iceburg.
So, some practical changes a Naturopath will tell you to do to assist with detoxification;
- Avoid all drugs: alchohol, caffeine, tobacco and pharmacuetical drugs (ie- painkillers).
Alcohol makes sperm co-agulate ('clump together') and it also mimics estrogen in the body- leading to weaker sperm and hormonal imbalance for both parties. Drugs such as painkillers make your liver have to work very hard to break them down, and subsequently just add to the toxic load. Your husband may wish to explain to his mates why he is avoiding alcohol so they are supportive of him and so he does not feel pressured to drink. Caffeine causes the body to leach calcium, as well as other essential trace minerals which are essential for healthy conception. Caffeine is in cola, chocolate, hot chocolate, coffee, tea and some energy drinks.
- Get on to natural personal care products. The brand 'Miessence/Mivitality' is a certified organic brand - the purest available here in Australia. They also do make-up and nutritional supplements. There is an article here on belly belly about their 26 superfood + probiotic supplement 'In-Liven'- highly recommend for couples trying to conceive. Miessence is available online or from health stores. If you would like a cheaper alternative, the Sukin range is an alternative and is still void of most of the chemicals that are present in the mainstream brands.
- Using organic cotton tampons is also an absolute must for TTC. Conventional cotton drops are heavily sprayed with toxic pesticides and the cotton is later bleached to make it white. These chemicals have been linked to cervical cancer, and have also been found to change the natural ph balance of the cervical fluid - a crucial factor of trying to conceive!! Jolie and Natracare sell organic cotton tampons that are certified chemical free. Ask at your local health food store.
- Start using natural cleaning products so you are not exposing yourself to unessesary chemicals (available from your local health store). White vinegar and bi-carb soda can do wonders!!!
- Avoid paint, solvents, insect sprays and other toxic volatile substances.
- Eat Organic where possible. Conventional vegetables, fruits and grains are laced with pesticides and insecticides which over time can devastate fertility. The range of organic produce in regular supermarkets is increasing due to popular demand. Otherwise your local health store should be able to advise you on where to purchase organic produce.
- Avoid artificial additives in food (ie- artificial colours, flavours, preservatives, sweeteners, emulsifiers, thickeners, whiteners, etc). Usually these will be presented in the ingredients list as a number (their chemical code- ie- MSG is E621). If you are not sure about what is and isn't safe, you can go to additivealert.com - they even sell a book which lists all of them and their effects on the body.
- Start to detox yourselves. I placed a post in the general conception area here about friends of mine who feel pregnant after doing the Quick Cleanse 15 day detox that is available from most chemists and health food stores. Prior to this they had been trying for 2 and a half years to fall pregnant naturally. Its very important that your hubby does it with you. As I wrote in the other post- there's no point turning your womb into a greenhouse if your hubby's sperm is sluggish with booze and other nasties!!
A diet rich in seasonal fresh vegetables and fruit, wholegrains, seeds, nuts (your ABC-almonds, cashews and brazil are best), and fish low in mercury content (google to find out), with plenty of pure water is the diet eaten by the communities of the world who have the longest lifespan. It is also the diet recommended for fertility experts. If you cut out saturated fats (dairy, processed meats), sugar, white grains (white bread, pasta etc), processed foods (biscuits, cakes, chips, lollies), carbonated drinks (coke, lemonade etc), this will also increase your bodies' ability to start eliminating toxins. be sure to choose wholegarin varieties of pasts, rice and bread. Plus, you can do simple things like using avocado or tahini instead of butter as a sandwich spread, olive oil instead of butter or canola oil in your cooking, and Oat or Rice Milk instead of dairy in your cereal.
Limit your drinks to water (filtered if possible), herbal tea (peppermint, chamomile and rooibos are safe during pregnancy), and 100% fruit juices diluted with one-third water.
I really hope this helps somewhat. It is really worth both of you exhausting the natural road and undergoing extensive, rigorous detox before you give up. But please consult a qualified Naturopath to get personalised, professional advice. They will also be able to construct hair and saliva analysis tests to check for heavy metal toxicity etc, as well prescribe certain supplements, herbs and homeopathic remedies which are applicable specifically to you and your partners constitution. Traditional Chinese Medicine and Acupuncture also have great success in assisting fertility. You can contact ANTA (Australian natural Therapists Association) if you want to find qualified natural therapists near you.
Best of luck and stay strong.
X
Last edited by JellyBean; January 13th, 2009 at 08:54 AM.
: added info
I'm just keeping this thread as a bit of a running blog for me in the hope that I get pregnant this year!
Today I had an ultrasound. My first ever transvaginal - bit of discomfort but I survived. Both ovaries had lots of cysts on them. The doctor doing my ultrasound said my body wants to ovulate but just can't. She was very nice and positive and thinks once I see the FS I shouldn't have too much problem.
I am going back to the GP next thur to get a formal report on the ultrasound I had today plus the blood test results I had on tuesday and to have a pap smear (not a big fan of these!) I've got an appointment with the FS on the 17th of Feb so only a month away.
So atm it's all just about going through the motions really. I will be happy once I see the FS because I guess the game plan for me is all going to depend on him. I am feeling positive though I think because both my GP and the doctor who did my ultrasound today have all said encouraging words and have been positive saying I will get pregnant. And they both have had said very good things about the FS I am going to see so I guess the pressure will be on him now lol.
Reply With Quote
Registered User
TTC Journey # 1 2009!
Bookmarks