Welcome to BB. You'll find lots of support here.

I dont have personal experience with fibroids, but I did recently read an article of a woman in your situation. Instead of surgery, she had some kind of extreme ultrasound on her uterus that ended up reducing the fibroid. It was done at Royal Womens Hospital, Melbourne. She went on to have a healthy baby. It may be something worth discussing with your doctor. I understand pregnancy hormones can cause fibroids to grow so I imagine that will increase the risk if any pregnancy.

GL