TTC and other peoples unwanted opinions

[Counting Days]

what makes me laugh is when family keeps dropping hints when they dont know that you are actually TTC

I am just sick of the waiting hoping that this month will be theone for us

[missymoohoo]

It is sad to think that some people family/friends/coworkers etc can respond in such a negative way when a couple want to have a baby - I think it is beautiful as I see a few friends who are so happy with their bundle of joy.

I must be fortunate everyone that knows that my partner and I are planning to have a bub next year. I have heard nothing but support, encouragement etc. Everyone is very excited for us. It certainly helps when I am scared at what is going to be in store for me when I see the fs.

But if I had people giving negative comments etc about it - I'd just tell them to keep their opinions to themselves!

[Shanti]

Only reason we never told people when we were TTC this bub, is because we didn't want people saying "so, any news??" every damn month!! LOL we had heard stories and didn't want to have to put up with any of that!

DH and I have already decided when we'll be trying for our 2nd bub but noone knows except us hehe

[Papillon]

OH i am so with you guys... i am sick of the "you have a pigeon pair, you dont need to go back"

WHERE THEY HELL DID THIS PIGEON PAIR THING COME FROM????????!!!!!!!! lol

I odnt know why, but 4 is what i have in my head.... so 4 is where i will go! AND i want it all done before i am 30 so i only have a 3 years to get 2 more out lmao!

As for negative, yes.... hence why i am hush hush now! everyone thinks they know better about our situation, and where it may not look to be the right time, we have learnt better than anyone, you can have the "right" time only to have life throw you a huge bone in your wheel! lol

GO US I SAY!

[Danielle]

Missy: I dont know where the hell they got the pigeon pair from either! drives me nuts!!! sometimes I wish I had 2 girls so then I wouldnt have to put up with it, but I wouldnt change my two little jellybeans for the world, I dont think any of us need reasons for a 3rd its just how you feel, I love kids so dam it! Im goin for 3! lol I too wanted 4 but cant from stupid c sections and babies heads being 40 cms deary me! But I will settle for one more I think. And so true about life throwing a bone in your wheel when the times right! So to hell witht he right or wrong time! And I think my DH has just realised this himself and he is very keen for bub no.3 now too.