Miss H - Thank you! You're right, I need to relax... I was relaxed about it all until I googled it and got confused. So when you say to "DTD up to 4 days before and after" are you referring to the start of my menstrual cycle, or that 14 day mark before start of menstrual cycle? I started taking my "Pregnancy and Breastfeeding Gold" again a week ago, will double check to ensure this has folic acid in it, I'm pretty sure it does. That's interesting about getting DF to take folic acid, I didn't realise that they can do something as well to aid a healthy baby!