Hey Yldn6e1,

First must say love the username

It can be vary hard TTC normally but even harder when there are not regular cycles etc.
I also have PCO but not PCOS, but in saying that I am lucky enough to have a pretty regular cycle.
This is our 11month TTC.

As for the maybe baby, I do not find mine works all that well and gave up on using it, I then after purchasing it found a lot of people feel the same and even read that in one of the forums on here, wish I had seen it before I had wasted that money, but in saying that I do know other people who it has woked great for, I do find OPK's good but as with everything TTC they can become expensive..

I have not ever heard anything about gaining weight, as long as your within the healthy weight range it should not matter.

Have you spoken to your dr about your irregular cycles they may be able to put you on some medication to help or have you had blood test to check if you are ovulating etc??

The only other things I can suggest is maybe going down the path of seeing a naturopath, I take herbs from naturopath and have found since taking them that my EWCM etc is heaps better, and others on here have had great success with traditional chinese medicine and accupuncture as well.

All I can say is I understand your frustration and many others do to, TTC can be so hard and very hard to continue to keep the passion in DTD!! and it can get frustrating trying to DTD at the right time.

Have you thought about joining the TTC groups on here they have ones for 1-6mnth, 6-12mnths, 12mnths + and so on they can be a great support and great place to chat to other who are experiencing the same frustrations.

Best of luck with your TTC journey and I hope you get a BFP soon.