Sounds like we are in about the same boat! DS is nearly 9 months, still bfing and we are *sortof* ttc #2. I say *sortof* because I have no idea what my bodies doing lol
I noticed EWCM about a month ago, did OPKs and they went positive to my shock. But then I had a bleed a few days later that lasted as long as AF. I haven't o'd since and should be due for AF any day now if that's what the bleed was. It's difficult ttc without a cycle. We are just bding a couple times a week if/when we feel like it and I figure nature will take it's course when my body is ready. A 6 hr gap is nearly unheard of around here lol so I don't like our chances.