DH and I have decided to try for bub #3. Given I've just turned 38 I'd like to "try" sooner rather than later. Our DS2 turned 12 months last week and I'm still BFing him approx 3x daily.

But so far, no sign of AF. Twice in the past couple of months I thought AF might have been on its way, but nothing. I actually fell pg with DS2 while BFing DS1 - no AF then either, but I obviously O'd. If only it would happen again .

So I'm wondering if I should "force" the issue, given no AF, and wean DS2. The pros are sort-of obvious, but it's the cons that make me hesitate. DS2 loves his morning and night "boobie" and I'm really quite against weaning before they're ready. The only reason I'm even thinking of weaning is to force my body into getting prepped to conceive again.

I needed clomid to conceive DS1 as AF was all over the shop. Hard to know if DS2 was a fluke or not. I wonder if I could take clomid and still BF?

Thoughts? Sigh ... maybe I'm overthinking this - I need to go to bed!