What is going on!! AF??

omg, i had to work today and I missed so much!! I can't believe it. It was so bad not being able to go on bellybelly when I was there. I think I am seriously addicted.
Renstar- soz about the bfn, but as you say you are not dissapointed so that is an awsome attitude.
Keira- congrats on the girl!! omg how exciting. I really want a girl but I think I'm going to have a boy, I just have a feeling, I have 4 brothers. Anyway that is so exciting for you now you can buy so many cute little outfits and ribbons and bows...
Spuddle- hope u get a bfp soon too!!

I think my DF really thought of getting engaged as a promotion in our relationship!! He keeps having moments where he wants to and moments where he's just not sure! We know we want to be together, so it's about that. I haven't put marriage as a condition on our relationship, so if it happens that would be wonderful, if it doesn't, the kids have my name!! I'm not carrying them for 9 months and then giving birth to them, only to have affiliation to them on paper!! No way!!! They will have my name! We can hyphenate it if he wants, but I'm not missing out on that!

I really want the wedding first, but I have a sneaking suspcion that we'll end up getting pregnant, packing my wedding dress and eloping! I'd really like to elope to gretna green :) I woudln't be able to tell Mom and Dad though - I'm their only daughter and it would crush them if i didn't have them at my wedding (it'd crush me too, but I'd rather be married and not have my family know than not be married and have everyone know!)

Does that sound silly?

nope, its not silly... you do whatever feels right for you! We thought of eloping but it was just too hard in the end and worked out to be too expensive!!! (Maldives!!) so yeah, we are having a beach wedding (at gold coast outside DF's folks place) and very very excited about it... can't wait! Two things to look forward to, (two big things!), getting married and falling pregnant, hopefully the pregnant part happening straight after the wedding :) it would be nice...
but i'm realistic and know that it may take a few months...

I think you really want a baby first, so you should go for that! ;) best wishes with a BFP soon.. i hope you get one soon... no doubt we'll be following each other around similar threads if we are both TTC!

Hey SaraJane!! :) Where have you been woman?!?!??!?!?! hehehe yeah its addictive alright......

No, that's not silly spuddles.
If that what you want.
Have u talked to DF about u really wanting to get married? Maybe he just doesn't think it's as big of a deal as you do and u need to tell him how much it means to you. Just a thought?? I know my DH was not as excited about getting married, etc as I was. He really was excited, he just hadn't been dreaming about it his whole life like me, lol.

I know, I have been hanging out to get on here. Got on as soon as I got home, lol.
Ooh, neighbours! I'm off again, lol.

You girls are so cute!! I can't wait for when you both announce you're preggo and then really go crazy with the shopping!!!!

Renee, i've been very naughty and bought heaps already, and only pink stuff!! I couldn't help it!! I just had a feeling it was a girl anyway, and i thought i can always give them to a friend or save them for the next bubs! But my mum and my grandma have bought HEAPS of neutral stuff, but now that they know it's a little princess i'm sure it will all be pink!

Oh i forgot too, because we went to a private ultrasound clinic, we had to pay $250 upfront, which is no big deal, and the receptionist told us we'd get $85 back from medicare, so i went into medicare today and we got $217 back!!!! So it really only cost us $33!!!! How's that!! I was shocked because i called RPA public hospital and the lady told us we couldn't get in until end of August!! Through the private one i got in within 2 days! And we got the dvd and photos and a baby sample pack showbag! Can you tell i've just had the BEST day ever!!!

Oh no Renee ya cant get rid of Jasper!

i would be at work and our neighbour (she was a little old lady) would ring me and tell me Roxi was over there house again, i dont think she was to impressed!!! i felt so bad but there wasnt anything i could do cos i was at work.

Oh you know how you asked about positions and more likely to have a girl or boy etc... well, this is probably WAY TMI so sorry!!! But, DP and i usually have our "regular" positions (it's been 3 years!) and when we conceived we were in a totally different position to normal, so apparently if the girl doesn't orgasm AND the guy is on top and he ejaculates "shallow" you are way more likely to have a girl! Hey, it worked for us!!!! :D

Sorry for the TMI... but if you're dead set on having a girl you should try that!

DF knows how much it all means to me. I honestly believe that we'll get there. I've had psychics tell me will and I just have a feeling. He's never really let me down before, so I think it's going to happen. "Put it out there" and all that!

I think that when I fall pregnant, he'll realise how important it is (at least I hope so - he has such a cool last name too dammit! It's so medieval!!)

I can't wait to knit booties and shop online for maternity clothes and little teeny weeny baby things! Awwww I'm so excited! It has to happen soon! Maybe next month when we are both feeling better! Maybe it'll happen in celebration of a new job for DF!

YAY, i hope you're preg too next month Spuddles! Fingers crossed!!

Keira CONGRATS on your Princess!! Girls up first are the beeeeeeeeeeeeeest :)

As for all the others... u guys talk toooo much... i was away all day and had so much to catch up on!

Ouch! My boobs are still sore... :crying: and no sign of AF.... grrr i am getting so angry now!!! :lol:

i just want something to happen! Anything!!..... have a nice night ladies!

Thanks Kim!!! Yeah i wondered where you were today!

You realise you're wishing for AF Renee!! I reckon if it goes any longer, get a blood test!! I think you're 4 days over now, tomorrow it will be 5? I was 8 days over before i tried my first hpt, and it was bfp. Maybe you tested too early!! Anyway, have a good night too!

xox

oh Keira, how did you wait 8 days to do the test?? I would test again 2moro but i don't have any left! :crying: I'll be able to test Sat a.m so let you know then... (promise!)..
Tomorrow I will be 4 days late... hhhmm..... still feel slightly nauseous but it's not as bad as after b'fast today... i'm not wishing for AF, I'm just wishing for some news! AF or BFP (preferably BFP please!!) I spoke to DF before and he said "do you think you are pregnant?" and I said "well, possibly might be, have to wait..." and his eyes kinda lit up! It was so cute.. but i told him not to get excited as i probably am not...
I bet Kim was sleeping ALL day... she said she went back to bed at 9am! hehe

Keira, i'm so happy for you that you had the best day EVER... you deserve it chicky!! :P and you're having a BABY GIRL!!!!!!!!! :stork-girl:

LOL at Kim sleeping all day! :lol:

I actually didn't know to wait a bit, but my period had been pretty regular (plus or minus a day or two) and it was never that late, no matter how stressed i was, and i told DP that i was late and he kept saying oh you can't be pregnant!! And then at day 8 i said my period still hasn't come!!! And he just went and bought me a hpt and i did it straight away at 3pm and two lines came up! I knew it was pos+!

So i reckon you should just wait a few more days and if that b1tch hasn't turned up yet do another hpt!!!! Hehehe, i mean AF!

Thanks Renee, that means a lot to me!! xoxox

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So i reckon you should just wait a few more days and if that b1tch hasn't turned up yet do another hpt!!!! Hehehe, i mean AF!

haha you crack me up :P

that's what DF says to me most of the time "nah, you won't be pregnant" hehe I think they just say it so we stop worrying all the time! I'm a shocker tho, cos whenever my AF is late (never this late!) I say "thats it i must be preg then!" hehe

Enjoy the rest of your night... crack open the non-alcoholic champagne with your DP! Woohoo!! See ya!

haha too cute babe

I've already scoffed a celebratory pizza to myself!! hehehe, and now off to watch my baby girl on her dvd and eat chocolate! :dance:

xox

thanks for the tip about making baby girls keira!
Will have to test that theory out, lol, not that you needed to know that.
renee, 4 days late tomorrow, wtf, something weird is going on, i wish we'd just find out what it is!! lol.
I hope I get pregnant soon. This thread is making me super excited, I can't wait!