What now?

[Heaven]

I hate TTC

It took us 11 months and a miscarriage to conceive DD1. DD2 was conceived first try just after I got AF back after DD1. We have now been TTC number 3 for 9 months. Now, that would be fine because I know it can take up to a year when everything is normal. But it's not normal. I ovulate a bit late and my LP is all over the place but always too short. The shortest it has been is 8 days, and the longest (1 cycle) is 14 days. Usually it's around 10 or 11 days. Too short, and varies way too much. That's not normal! I have been going to acupuncture and last cycle it increased to 13 days so I was hopeful we were getting on track and I would have a chance now but I'm 10dpo now and have spotting So I just feel like it's never going to happen, I don't have a chance.

I'm not really sure what to do now? Should I go to the Dr? Will they even care? Any Dr I've been too didn't seem to trust my charting too much or think it was important, and it hasn't been a year yet. I'm not really sure if I should do anything yet, as I haven't had this issue before so just looking for advice? No point in keeping on TTC and doing nothing if it's not going to work anyway though.

TIA.