thread: whats the chances considering not dtd after peak

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  1. #1
    Nothing like a cuddle from DD after a hard day's work!

    Oct 2007
    in my own world
    3,267

    Thanks ladies, well I read the instruction book and it said I am due to ovulate in the next 24 to 36 hrs.

    I hate having to grovel to dtd even thoguh dh wants another bub just as much as me.

    Yup like a major chore indeed

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
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    My Fs says that we only have to DTD every second day. I am the same, we both get up very early for work and Im so tired at night it's the last thing on my mind! I didn't think DTD every day would be a problem for DH, but he says it doesn't work like that (not like the movies tell us!)
    Sperm can live inside your body for up to 5 days, if they have good mobility. It's ok to have a days rest in between, we are not machines! Do you have any ovulation signs other than fertility monitor?
    Last edited by Marley&Me; December 5th, 2010 at 11:40 AM. : spelling

  3. #3
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    Mar 2007
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    I still think there is a chance as the others have said.

    Huge hugs to you because I know TTC is hard work and it is so difficult to BD time and time again, especially when neither of you are really into it (speaking from experience here, lol). I know you have been TTC for a long time so that makes it all the more difficult for you.

    I also wanted to reassure you that your baby WILL be conceived out of love even if you arent enjoying DTD because it isnt loving the act of conception, but more the love you and your DH share which create the baby (even dispite an argument).

  4. #4
    Nothing like a cuddle from DD after a hard day's work!

    Oct 2007
    in my own world
    3,267

    thank you ladies for your support
    i feel slightly better today but not looking forward to dtd today and tomorrow. I am worried if i skipped today i might have missed it even though i know sperm can live up to 5 days but i would be kicking myself!!!

    Ahurani and Tasha, sorry i cant give you rep points to show my gratitude as I gotta spread the love first lol but i appreciate everyones support

    oxox

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    pakenham, victoria
    3,660

    hun the cycle i got utd with this bubba we only dtd ONCE the whole month!!!!! the day of ovulation, so yes there most certainly is a chance, hope things get better with u and DH, its hard to mae DTD sexy and fun when ur TTC