DS and DD are 23 months apart. Ive never had to have the thought of oh why did i have them so close. They get along so well. Theres 4 years between my brother and i and my brother and my sister and i found that too big of a gap. We were never really close at all.
This baby was going to be about the same as DS & DD but had complications on the way.. but will be 2 yrs 7 months younger than DD. Im happy with that difference. Not too close but not too far apart.