When is the right time to seek medical help to conceive.

I needed clomid to conceive DS1 as I wasn't ovulating properly (fortunately fell pg on second cycle of clomid), then DS2 was conceived naturally (an oopsie) when DS1 was 12 months and still BFd.

I currently BF DS2 (14 months) twice daily and my cycle seems to be out of whack once again. Only one AF (5 weeks ago) and little sign of ovulation (except for O'ing 6 days before AF, which obviously doesn't bode too well ).

Given DS1 was conceived easily with the help of clomid, and DS2 was natural - do you think I just need to be a bit more patient in our TTC #3 quest. My gut tells me to be patient a bit longer, maybe even wean DS2, then see what happens. But those annoying little TTC voices in my head say "you're 39 in December, your fertility is declining etc". Not that this is the be-all and end-all of why you do/don't conceive but I'm within a healthy BMI range and lead an active, healthy lifestyle.

I'm blessed to have my two boys, but I don't feel like my baby days are over yet, and DH is happy to have a third and final child. Sigh, I'd forgotten what a headache this TTC business is. Give me an oopsie any day