I was told when pregnant with my third that my chances had changed to 70-80% of having the same gender again.... I did have another girl. I was also told that if I were to have a forth my chances would go back to 50/50.

On the gap thing, gaps between my children are 18 months, 21 months and 18 months.

I am now 8 weeks pregnant so I suppose I will be able to add a little more to the conversation in 10-12 weeks.

Either way we are happy, I don't really see how gender changes anything, although it is still exciting to find out