Hi Baseballwifecathy,

My sister got married at 21 and as we come from a Chrisitan family, she waited til marriage also. She tried for 1 year before she finally fell pregnant with her first and in the meantime she went to visit a naturopath who specialises in fertility as she thought there was something wrong. Anyway she now has 3 children with the last one borne when she was 34! so take it slow, and don't worry if you don't fall straight away either. By the way as all the other ladies have advised you don't need to orgasm to fall pregnant, except if you are gender selecting and your wanting a boy, then you should orgasm first. Its all up to God anyway, as we know, and when you ask you shall recieve! Goodluck

Oscaroscar - where is the chrisitan threads I can't seem to find them?

thanks