Hey Lauren...definately not a silly question. When I first started ttc our first baby, I came off the pill and expected to fall pregnant straight away....well that put high expectations on straight off the bat. I didnt and I agonised over it for the months to come. We eventually went and did our over seas trip and decided that it wouldnt be good to fall then because we were doing a contiki tour and drinking copious amounts of alcohol. Fortunately I didnt fall then, but when we came back and a good 7 kgs heavier, I decided to go on a diet and not worry too much about trying....so what happened? I fell pregnant! It took 9 months all up. I think for me personally, it was about relaxing and not obsessing (although that can be very hard and I still obsess trying for #3). I suppose it just take time and when I went to the dr about it he said if nothing happens after 12 months of actively trying then to come have a chat. All the best with it,
Melissa