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  1. #1
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    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
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    Red face Would it be safe?

    Ok so even though I have had 3 children, i have no idea bout charting or fertile stuff - we just sorta did it whenever and I *luckily* got pregnant.. LOL I know when I ovulated though - so at least thats something.

    Now - just say DH got lucky tonight (thats not to say he WILL, this is simply hypothetical.. lol) is it safe to not use any form of protection? I stopped bfing about a week ago, and haven't got AF yet, nor do I have any cramps or anything which usually indicated that I was ovulating, or just about to.

    I got AF back after the other two when they were about 8 weeks old - so technically I should be ok yeah? Yeah?

    Whatcha's reckon? I don't have the pill or anything cos I'm not going to take it again, and we do have condoms but I detest them, so would rather use nothing - or do nothing.. bwahahahahahaha

  2. #2
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    May 2007
    Warrnambool Vic
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    Hi,

    I have to say, it wouldn't be 'safe' to have unprotected sex at this stage.

  3. #3
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    Feb 2006
    NSW Central Coast
    5,301

    I wouldn't unless you really want to have another in 9ish months time!!! Better to be safe than sorry!

  4. #4
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    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
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    Bahh.

    Oh well, poor DH


  5. #5
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    Mar 2009
    373

    You'll probably be OK...BUT...... I would get a condom just to be sure, someone my DH works with has 2 kids that are 10 months apart....ekkkk!

  6. #6
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    Mar 2009
    373

    Just saw you have condoms and hate them....sorry, but I don't know if it's worth the risk iykwim...

  7. #7
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    Jul 2004
    5,756

    Hmm well i wouldnt give it 100% trust. I mean i was charting to NOT fall pregnant and look what happened? lol. Plus you havent got AF back yet so who knows when you'll O next.

  8. #8
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    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
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    Well you did say you want number 4 Mel

    Seriously though, there's probably a pretty low chance considering you're only just a month post birth, but would you really want to risk it?

  9. #9
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    Dec 2007
    Sunny Qld
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    Seriously though, there's probably a pretty low chance considering you're only just a month post birth, but would you really want to risk it?
    haha I just want to see if my old girl still works the same..

    Poor poor DH...

  10. #10
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    Feb 2004
    Melbourne
    11,171

    I bet she works perfectly You just don't want her to work *too* perfectly

  11. #11
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    Dec 2005
    In Bankworld with Barbara
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    He can always pull out That's not failsafe either and if it were me, I wouldn't want to be tempting fate LOL