I know what you mean. We were going to start TTC next month but we have a few social engagements coming up that I don't want to be pregnant for (priorities, priorities! ) so we've postponed it until April but I'm currently charting and just started using OPKs again this cycle to see where I'm at. I got a postive OPK today so yerhar, I'm ovulating! It's tempting to get on the wagon tonight as I know there is an eggy waiting in the wings (PMSL!) but I really, REALLY don't want to be pregnant just yet. Charting again has been great, maybe you could do that and see if anything is happening in there