thread: Your thoughts on TTC: "just relax" "try not to think about it"

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  1. #1
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    Jul 2008
    Home with my Son :)
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    Well I was TTC for 3yrs. Decided that it was never going to happen naturally so made an app with FS.. As it was public I was on a waiting list.. Got an appointment for about 6months later in October, found out I was pg end of July WITH TWINS!.. Unfortunately I lost them though cos they were premmie.. Anyway, being trying on and off since May 2009, so nearly 2yrs and nothing.. I want it so desperately, which kinda makes it hard to 'relax' and let it happen.. My blood tests have shown simiar to yours it sounds.. I went to an OB/GYN and she said I have bad quality eggs.. I ovulate sometimes, but they aren't 'mature' enough apparently..

    I hate it when people say just relax.. It's so easy for people to say.. I know people who have fallen pg 'obsessing' about it so no I don't think it's that. I think it's just luck.. GL with your TTC no 3..

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    brisbane
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    i personally hate when people say just relax.. hate hate hate it.
    i also believe it is just luck when people do fall pg while "relaxing" because there are plenty of people who don't fall while they are.
    i took 3 months off ttc late 2009 as i was starting a new job... it didn't happen for me then. and im still trying.