Sue, I too have read alot of your posts, but haven't responded to any as I didn't really know how to say what I have to say. But one thing always comes to my mind when I read your posts and that is a saying one of my bellybuddy friends told me, which is 'Nothing changes if nothing changes'. Meaning if you continue to leave things as they are, to be the same as it ever was, then it will always be the same as it ever was. Noone in your life has any motivation to change it, but you. You sound like you are the only one losing out in your life. You are the only one who can change any of it. I can understand it may be difficult with several children in tow, or children with special needs, and on your own too. But if you don't like your life the way it is, you need to change it. YOU need to put into place some strategies to follow, and do it. As I said, noone else has any reason, any motivation to change your life for you, everyone else has their own life and battles they are dealing with.
Big hugs to you, you sound like you're not feeling so great. It is really horrible to feel helpless, but until you realise that only you can help yourself (be it going to some sort of life coaching classes, or talking it out really honestly with your children), your life will continue to be what it alway has been.
Last edited by MrsFabuloso; February 13th, 2010 at 08:01 PM.
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