Hmm it's so hard when ppl do that especially when they know your trying to be good & healthy but you know what i still quite enjoy Macca's we don't have it often so every now and then i find it a 'treat' i don't want to constantly be telling myself i'm not ALLOWED to have things.. i know it's not great for me but damn it can taste good.
Your DH sounds wonderful, he stood up for you both and that takes guts... so so proud that you stuck to your guns and said NO!
Maybe next time they call and say were getting food you can say great how bout we get some sandwiches or you stop and get chicken, salad & rolls

Maybe you can get them involved, tell them you'd like to do a family challenge, set a goal, organise a 'healthy' family dinner night once a week.. get your SIL to pick out a wedding dress at a shop in a smaller size, you pick a goal outfit to wear to her wedding and work towards it.... maybe it will motivate her more?

walk today was great it's warm out there but a nice breeze... kids LOVEd rhyme time now their both asleep, i SHOULD be cleaning but ah well resting for 10min to myself

Will do the stats tonight so anyone who hasn't sent them has a little extra time