Lilias I know how you feel! Before falling pg with #4 I really wanted to change. Now I don't have much of a choice for the next few months. But since this is my last I want my body back. Well as much as possible! But with four kids under 3&1/2 it us going to be tough! I think you have to take baby steps maybe changing diet first and sticking to it? Hopefully that will show some results and you can slowly incorporate exercise. What time do the kids go down? Try and get them all on a similar schedule so then you can spend a little time in the evening exercising? I know I am stuffed at the end of the day but just a half hour a night will make a difference!