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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Brissy
    1,292

    BABY weight, whats accetable or normal ?

    I am currently about 30 weeks pregnnat and have gained about 6 and half kilos so far but the thing is that before i got pregnant i did a fresh cycle IVF/ ICSI and i gained 4 kg because of that.
    so thats 10 kg all up

    i was already overweight and i am concerned about how big i will get in the last 8 weeks or so. i usually have big babies and go early also ( 2 or 3 weeks)

    I gained 14 kg with DS1
    16 kg with DS 2
    and 19 kg with DS 3

    so i know what i have gained is not too bad but i started a LOT bigger this time and i am only 3 kg off the weigt i was hen i had DS 3 ?!

    i feel so FAT and discusting but people keep telling me i look like i've lost size. except tummy and bust that is. LOL

    I don't want to be an obese mum

    The Birth centre said i can go up to 108 before i am over BMI of 35 which is just TOO FAT to have baby at birth centre

    I am about 96 kg at the moment. so i have 12 kg to go before get TOO FAT. which is not likely to happen in 8 weeks .

    what is normal for REAL women to gain ?

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
    7,177

    Your gains sound totally normal I lost weight in the first and second tri, and then put it all back on and then some in the third tri. I gained 13kg from my pre preg weight.

  3. #3

    Jul 2009
    Australia
    5,102

    Sounds very normal

    I lost between 10-15kgs in the first 12 weeks i then went on to gain it back plus 8kgs and i was far from skinny pre pregnancy.

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Member

    Jan 2010
    2,793

    A book I have says 'normal' weight gain is anywhere from 8-20kg with the average being 12. From what I remember I didn't gain as much in the final few weeks so I wouldn't worry at all. Your really haven't gained much at all.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Melbourne
    6,745

    I gained 18-20kg both times and I have lost it all both times. I am a fairly average weight I guess.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jan 2007
    7,197

    I am short and pre baby was around 60 -65 kgs - with DD I put on 15kgs and with DS I put on 20 kgs. Don't forget that that is also baby (4.560kgs of baby for DS!!) and then fluid etc. I lost all my baby weigh within 2 weeks of having mine although everything seemed to change position on my body!

    It sounds to me like a normal gain, but if you are worried I guess all you can do is make sure you eating healthy, sensible food most of the time ( i say most because I craved maccas and nothing was keeping me from those golden arches while pg). xoxox

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    surrounded by textbooks, cat toys and love
    1,124

    I gained 30kg. Go me. I didn't eat well AT ALL in the last trimester, I've lost 26kg, but I've done a fair bit of toning so despite being 4kg off pre-preg I fit into pre-preg clothes (cept the boobs!).

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Dec 2010
    Adelaide (North East)
    2,047

    I gained about 5.5kg, but I was on the bigger side to begin with, so I was conscious of not putting on too much, then found out I had gestational diabetes so had to restrict my diet even more.

    Since DD was born 7 weeks ago I've lost 13kg and am the lightest I've been in 4 years, despite eating 24/7 due to breastfeeding hunger!

    Bottom line is don't let it worry you too much, just enjoy being pregnant and the rest will sort itself out later!

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jul 2009
    2,251

    I was 58kg before I fell Preg with dd and got up to 80kg, gosh typing that sounds crazy but I did. 22kgs! I ate well too and not heaps because I was sick all the time. I'm now down to 61kg.

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Brissy
    1,292

    thanks guys for all your comments

    kimbles01: hope i lose it that quickly !

    AFM: well i have had a cold and now i have lost half kilo !!

    the midwife growled at me and this was before the loss for not gaining enough ?? what ?? and said that the reason i am getting low BP and feeling sick etc is cause i have NOT gained enough ?

    i am so so over it. i am on so many vitamins and supplements to help baby ( all approved thru naturopath) Iron, due to low iron, Calcium due to the fact that milk and milk products are making me sick ?. preg vitamin, omega 3 and now kelp to help my low BP and even some licorice in small quantities to help low BP also.

    it is so frustrating. i am trying to do my best and not dieting but i still get into trouble, grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr