Definately know where you are coming from. I always feel like Im shovelling my meal in my mouth at lightening speed because I know Dh will take his sweet time enjoying his food and that the peace with the boys will only last til one has finished the meal so I eat fast to run off and start the bath before all heck breaks loose, lay out PJs, start stacking the dishwasher...................always something to do in the 10min of p&q caused by feeding the hungry horde

Technically with all the food I have to SHARE with others; I should definately be atleast 2 or 3kgs lighter