ill get hubbie to read this and do a post when he is free he probably can relate and help a bit more, i also struggle with weight loss the scales dont budge here to i have just had to learn to love the new me every bump lump and stretch mark, its taken me years and im still at the learning stage. i weight 82 kilo and im 168cm tall i had not even lost my preg weight and now are pregnant again with bub number 5 11 weeks pregnant