Thanks ladies. You are all right. I really should focus more on how proud I am of what my body has achieved and give it time to heal more before putting more stress on it. And I really AM proud of what it's done. Us woman are amazing. It would just be nice if all births came with a magical tummy tuck afterwards, hehe.

I'm going to stick with just the pelvic floor exercises suggested by the physio, and perhaps just a few gentle tummy clenches like 'surprised' mentioned. When I go see my Ob in a few weeks I'll get his advice then about taking the kids for walks. It would be nice to be able to even just walk them around to one of the local parks. Although I'll admit I'm nervous how I will handle three at a park now lol!