i lost something like 20kg while i was pg. between ms, increased metabolism because of the baby needing food, and the extra increase of having to snack on healthy food alllll day to keep ms at bay alllll pregnancy, it just fell off me

Squid - don't weigh yourself daily - don't try to make up for weight lost. ideally, you shouldn't be weighing yourself more than monthly, though weekly is probably more normal for a pregnant woman. your weight varies day to day, even hour to hour depending on fluid retention etc. if you're focussing on the numbers you're not doing yourself any favours - it's that kind of behaviour that can lead to eating disorders (not saying that's where you're going, but it CAN lead that way). if younger kids see mum and dad obsessing on the numbers every day, it can mess with their heads