I think its reasonable to make a list if he doesn't work it out for himself. FWIW, my DH is like this too. Every now and then I'll just think sod this, and leave the dishes and wait to see how long it takes before he actually washes something. Of course, the usual outcome is that I end up really peeved and washing mountains of dishes myself because its been three days and they're starting to smell ;-)
I also hate the "I've done X for you". Ah no you haven't love. You've done it because it needed doing. Your house too!!
Yep- I get that too.
Thankfully, one of DH's day to day jobs is to clean the kitchen- so stack the dishwasher, wash any excess dishes and wipe the benches etc.
BUT he doesn't wipe down the cooktop- which is white and needs constant attention.
I'd also do a list of chores that need doing for the week and either assign them to each other at the beginning of the week or see if you can sort it out between you two. Why don't you get the stove done by someone then make a 'pact' to have to maintain it to that standard?? I know my DH is a little lax when it comes to housework too, particularly the stove top and benches..... GL
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