I'm like Divvy - routine helps me.

I work a five day fortnight (Mon, Tues every 2nd Fri).

DH & I meal plan on the weekends. Days that we both work, we use the slow cooker or have pasta. We usually will do a large shop on the weekend and just midweek pick ups like milk, bread etc...

On works days I usually don't make the beds until the arvo/night unless I have excess time. Other days I am home & the weekend, I make the beds in the morning.

Wednesday & the weekend I do washing. Clothes usually on Wednesdays, towels & linen on the weekend and DH work clothes and any other clothes that need washing. To get it dry atm, I use the dyer for some things (like underwear & towels) and all the others get hung on the clothes horse in the study with the door closed so it dries quicker. I fold and put away as they are dried. Iroining is done in front of the t.v. on a Sunday.

My main day of cleaning is Thursday - I do bathrooms, toilets, dusting, floors (vac & wash) etc....
During the week, I clean as I go (my gf gave me that tip). So, after dinner DH & I usually do the dishes together (one washes, the other dries and puts away) and sweep the kitchen/meals area floor. I tidy DD playroom (once she is in bed approx. 8pm) & if needed I do a quick sweep/vac.

DH makes his own morning tea/lunch.

I pack DD bag for creche/playgroup/swimming the night before.

I usually either have my clothes for work pulled out the night before or I already know what I am going to wear. I also have my bag packed the night before.

I found that tidying/cleaning as you go has helped me stay on top of things. Sometimes I am pushed to get everything done midweek (Particularly on the weeks I work three days), however I do it on the weekend if need be.

Have you looked at fly lady - I used her to get into a routine and modified it to suit me. GL