Domestic Criminal

[ss_storm]

dont worry...my house look like a bomb has hit it too...clean laundry everywhere, stuff all over the lounge and coffee table, floors havent been vaccuumed for over a week, hard floors havent been mopped and the bathroom hasn't been cleaned since DD was born!! Bathroom and vacuuming is on my "must do" list for this week!

Oh and I spent literally all day yesterday in my pyjamas! To be fair it was horrible weather...cloudy, rainy cold and miserable, the kind of day you want to spend in your pj's. Lol

[bon]

DH calls the pile of clean washing in the laundry 'Mt Washmore'. It is literally about a weeks worth of washing that I am yet to get around to folding and putting away. The bathroom is gross, and somehow my 2 year old managed to get toothpaste all over the vanity and the shower screen *sigh* so I am going to have to clean it tomorrow. Would have done it today but a friend called and wanted to go out for coffee, which ended up lasting until pick up time lol. Much more fun than housework

[littlelara]

TD, you can always come to mine! I even promise to supply lunch lol.
Don't sweat it, I can't remember when I last saw the bottom of the washin hampers, and that's clean OR dirty.
Beyond sweeping once a day and trying to coax things into piles I've pretty much given up for the moment. Until we get more storage it's an uphill battle and even dp (the domesticated of the two of us) seems to have given up and become disheartened.
So it's not just you and I'm sure it will pass - that or they'll be at school eventually. I think part of the prob is that you make so much more mess when you spend so much time at home, and it's too cold to get out as much as you might otherwise.
Hth

[*Ali*]

Oh Tan- I think your loungeroom had some help from many little hands this morning

I actualley only put away the my clean washing from the last couple of weeks this morning (we were running out of baskets) We had 2 days worth of dishes sitting on the sink, and I can't find my laundry because of the piles of dirty washing.

I think sometimes in life we just have to let go of what we think we should be doing and roll with the punches, somedays we have greasy hair, unironed clothes and messy houses- but at the end of the day so long as our kids are fed, and loved thats all that matters!

[Matryoshka]

TD I love cleaning too! but i just don't have time to do it, between my 1 & 3 year old i am flat out all day... i usually clean late at night but lately have been too exhausted so its reached tip status

I'm just wondering how others with 2 little ones find the time to clean when you are looking after your kids?? when my baby goes for a nap, my toddler wants to play games we can't play when the baby is up, and usually after that i sneak in some computer time.

DH has offered to get in a cleaner but i don't want it to have come to that. Just can't wait until my boys can play more independantly, and are not velcro baby & toddler.

[Marlene]

You change the linen weekly???

You're one step ahead of me, LOL.

[Nelle]

I think part of the prob is that you make so much more mess when you spend so much time at home, and it's too cold to get out as much as you might otherwise.

I think Lara's hit on it really. When it was just dh and I at work/uni, our house was significantly cleaner! But kids home during the day, are relentless. If you give my #2 a spare 5 minutes, he'll find a washing basket and take great delight in pulling things out and throwing them - and I sort of figure...well, that's a safe 10mins of entertainment for him, maybe that's 10min I can spend having a cuppa.

So I guess that's what we have to look forward to - warmer weather in the short term, and school in the longer term.

[Sweet Bliss]

I have decided that my lounge room is now the designated toy/junk room....it is messy within 5 minutes of it being sparking clean, and it has double doors I can shut, problem solved!!!

My bedroom is like a tip because it is the room closet to the front door...so everything get dumped in there! lol. Sometimes I even find the bed

And because our house is new and has a fair bit of storage space, it is easy to put all the mess in the cupboards and it looks pretty neat.....until you open the cupboard and it all falls out on your head

But then I have days like today where I actually managed to mop the floors (everything else is still messy, but the floors are sparkling!), and then I spent the rest of the day lying on the floor or the bed staring into the eyes of the most gorgeous little man in the whole world....he had me mesmerised, and his laugh and smile is infectious....he doesn't care if there are piles of washing to be folded or if the doona is on straight (or on the floor!). And this time next year he is probably not going to want to just lie next to me all day chatting and gooing and gaaaing, so I am going to enjoy it while I can!

[Matryoshka]

See our house is largely open plan, the open plan area consists of what we use as a family room/lounge/ play area, kitchen, dining and display area (shelving etc). We also have a study, formal lounge and the boys 2 bedrooms.

We've been talking about having the boys share a room and make the other room a play room, but i'm not sure it would get used?

[saslia]

You change the linen weekly???

You're one step ahead of me, LOL.

and me !!

[Mak]

If your DH offers the cleaner again - bite your tongue and say YES!!!
Seriously - take the pressure off yourself for a bit. I had completely underestimated the energy and time it would take to entertain and feed my 9mo and 3yo. I like things to be clean and neat but was wasting way too much precious time trying to acheive it only for Miss 3 to completely trash things in about 2.5seconds.
I clean once a week and tidy at night. The place is reasonably clean but not like it used to be.......I clean the kitchen in the am, and keep dishes in DW too.
We have open plan too - so I have some big containers from Ikea that everything gets thrown in at night (not sorted or nicely - hidden). I figure it will be soon enough that they will want to hide in their rooms too.....
Even when it is cold we go out each day for a walk - if only to escape and get some fresh air when the walls close in!
It is still a work in progress for me....remember to be kind to yourself!!!!