Leave all the cleaning for Rowellen. As DS says "Mummy do it!"

Then Rowellen gets sick of it every now & then & rants at DH. He starts doing things for a while but drops into old habits after a while.

Having said that, there are plenty of things that I ignore for DH to do. So it's fair.

But on a more serious note, I do insist on closing cupboards, doors & fridges. I ask DH to put away butter/sauce etc after use but usually I just do it. Food scraps in bin, plate in sink. DS is getting really good at "helping". He gets upset when doors are left open or if we put his plate in the sink & he wanted to (when he isn't saying "mummy do it!".
Also, toys to be put away & lunches made before going to bed (again usually my job).