Thanks for the replies ladies

ss_storm - Yeah, DH does stuff all except the cooking. He keeps saying he has so many plans for the backyard and hasn't done anything. He says he wants to move stuff around and it doesn't get done. I'm the same now - I put it at the end of the bed for him to put away and it usually ends up at the end of the bed on the floor and he's grumpy cause its there.
I think I have to invest in getting something like that for DS that you have for your DD - but I need to wait till I get back to work and have some $$
My problem is DS barely sleeps during the day. I'm lucky if I get 2 blocks of 40 minutes from him so I can barely get stuff done. On top of him teething, he's really clingy, I just can't do anything

Rory - I definitely feel like I'm trying to negotiate any kind of housework with him, and because I am home, he expects me to be doing all the house work day in and day out. There are just times where I just can't because I'm exhausted.
He thinks I should do the whole kit and kaboodle - The washing them, the hanging them out, the taking them off and the folding and putting away.
In terms of housework, he cooks and cleans the dishes. Other than that, he doesn't do anything unless he's fed up with the 'mess' (as he puts it).
He thinks that his job is the cooking because he likes doing that, but just recently he's said to me 'Is there any chance of you ever doing the cooking? Or is it what I have to do?' So he basically expects me to do everything. When it comes to him doing 'stuff' around the house, well.. it's just nothing. I don't feel like he does pull his weight around the house and that the only time he does clean up himself is when people are coming around and I have to look after DS because he just won't stop crying.
I honestly used to be the lazier one out of the two of us when it came to cleaning, but bout a month before DS came along, I started pulling my finger out. Now, I like to at least throw the rubbish out of one room a day and straighten up that same room. When DH comes home from work, he sits himself in front of the tv till dinner needs cooking and then cooks, dishes up and then goes on the computer to do work. 11pm - 12am rolls around and he's rolling himself into bed.. And the day starts again. When it comes to the weekend, all he wants to do is stay in bed or just watch TV, like what's happening now.
Before DH and I were together, his XP had a 2yr old, so he hasn't actually looked after a baby full time - and he hasn't looked after DS full time. The most he's looked after DS is 3 hours while I napped. *see below*
He keeps saying to me that he'll gladly stay at home with DS if I brought in as much as he did because he thinks it's alot easier than his job now. And I know his job is REALLY hard, but to me, nothing is harder than looking after a baby full time.

Hollye - Thanks hun It kinda wasn't what I wanted to hear, but I did ask for opinions and that was yours. Thankyou
On top of washing them, folding them, hanging them out, I'd thought that it's not asking too much for him to do one thing. I usually do the washing while he's at work too, but never bring the clothes in until he gets home and I can put DS on the floor with his toys while DH watches TV, so I don't see the harm in him putting them away.
I usually try to talk to him about alot of stuff - housework, helping me more etc, but he always changes the subject (and it's not just when I'm talking bout important stuff he does it - he does it ALL the time)

Ali - Yeah I'm the same - There are just times where I've got DS on my lap on the computer because he just doesn't wanna let me do anything. Then, I'll put him down and he'll start bawling, or he'll be ok, but I'll walk away for two seconds and he'll get hysterical.

I had a nap today - well, a sleep more or less (got 3 and a half hours) and he put on 2 loads of washing while I napped. When I woke up, he said to me 'I managed to get a fair bit of stuff done, I don't know why you can't manage to do what I did' His 'fair bit of stuff' is just 2 loads of washing! My 'fair bit of stuff' is 3 loads of washing, dishes done and one room cleaned up of all it's rubbish.
Right now, there's a few of my clothes right in the middle of the bed (next to a sleeping DS) and I'm just going to hang them up - to which DH said 'I told you it was your stuff at the end of the bed' to which I said to him 'It's ok, at least I'm putting my clothes away'
As I said, DS is asleep, so I'm now going to go catch up on housework - even though it's 11:38pm and I'm not even tired!
Again, thanks ladies