Sorry if this is not the right place to put it - but I thought I'd see what you all thought.

When I do the washing, and after I've brought it in, I tend to fold it up - DHs clothes and my clothes.
I put my clothes away but then put DHs on the end of the bed. I've said to him before that if I fold his clothes up, will he put them away? He said that he would. He hasn't done it - once ever!

The vent is this - JUST yesterday I put clothes at the end of the bed and he's b**ching and moaning saying 'You could have put them away you know!' to which I said 'You said you'd be happy to put away your OWN clothes! I've put mine away'
Anyway, today he walks into the study and says 'They're mostly your clothes you know - Jumpers and pants' I remember I washed 3 jumpers and 3 pairs of pants (in preparation for winter) so it's not like it's a whole lot - but is it too much for him to just put them on the chest of drawers so I can put them away later?

Now, the fact that I've already asked him before if he'd put them away is why I think I have the rights to be annoyed at him. But it's every time I do the washing! It's always 'Why haven't mine been put away?' and 'When I say to put the clothes away, I mean all of them'
So, my question is also, DO I have the right to be annoyed? As I said before, I feel like I have the rights, but it's just a right royal PITA.

Away from the clothes for a second - I feel like I need to vent about something else.
Whenever DH is on holidays from work (he's a teacher) he does housework, but each time he does, he makes me feel like garbage - like I don't do anything while I'm home. He gets home after work and says things like 'Ugh, this place is a pig sty - I guess I'll just have to clean it up on the weekend'

Why can't he accept that we have a clingy baby and that I just can't get alot of stuff done? I've tried him (DS not DH) in a carrier, in a sling and his rocker and I can get the dishes done, or one load of washing hung out before he gets cranky

Ok, vent over - sorry ladies