Um when DH was working full time he would help out on weekends with anything that needed doing.

At the moment he is a student so is home more often (but is often studying) and I have divided the chores for everyone in the house to do - even the kids - which doesn't really help you as you only have a baby haha

However, I am basically in charge of the kitchen, although the kids help unload the dishwasher and DS (6) washes the dishes of a night time. But I do everything else, DH cooks a few nights a week to give me a break.

I get the older girls to vacuum the lounge twice a week, and I do a bigger clean on saturday - every room gets vacuumed. DH mops with the steam mop once a week (unless studying for an exam, then it just gets dirty until he does it because its his job and I'm not doing it for him). DS vacuums once a week as well - usually the bedrooms for me.

I do the bathrooms and toilets once a week. Doesn't take very long so I usually do the toilets whenever they are getting too grubby for me (and with 3 kids using a toilet it gets grubby quickly), DS wipes down the counter in the kids bathroom once a week.

I do a load of laundry once or twice a day - at least once, and the kids put their dirty clothes in the laundry so I don't have to search for clothes. I fold up the clothes when they are dry, and each child puts their clothes away.

Um, the kids tidy up their own rooms before going to bed of a night time and I do the bigger rooms - usually DH helps out when the kids are in the bath, and we both go around picking stuff up and putting it where it belongs (obviously our kids are older and can be trusted in the bath on their own though - sometimes they shower instead).

DH is responsible for the outside stuff, although he gets DS to help weed the garden and usually the others pitch in to help too.

On the whole I am the main person doing the cleaning and stuff - but I think thats only fair because I'm the one that doesn't have any other "job" to go to - this is my job. Looking after kids and keeping the house reasonably clean. I pretty much suck at it, but I do try and keep up with the messy children LOL

ETA - I'm the only one who cleans the shower though, because the cleaners set off DH's asthma.