Thanks so much guys. I'm off into DS1's room. He just asked me to help him clean it up, so Heaven I think you're right, he's feeling it's a bit out of control too.

I'm going to take a box in for charity donations. Great idea.

TFB: things with sentimental value like that first toy that my cousin gave to DD when she was born. That rainbow echidna that all three of my kids have loved. The first doll i bought DD. That sort of thing.