I work four days a week, so it's a bit of a different situation to yours. But, I wake up at 6 so I can see DH before he leaves for work and get my hair and makeup done before DD wakes. When she's up, it's a quick play, breakfast, pack her bag and off to daycare/work.

DH picks her up and gets home at 3:30, and it's all about play til I get home at 5:30, not a bit of cleaning done! Not that I mind, he generally hasn't seen her since the night before. She loves going outside now, so most days he'll take her out the back and they play with the dog.

When I get home, I take DD and DH cooks dinner. After dinner he baths DD while I clean up and put away milk expressed that day. After bath I get DD to sleep, usually takes 60-90 minutes. DH generally has down time, sometimes cleans up the kitchen. After DD's asleep, I make the next day's lunch and prepare the next day's dinner so it's all ready to go. And there's always laundry to do, either wash, hang out or put away. I also get all my stuff ready so the mornings are easier, and get DD's clothes and nappies ready for the next day.

Other stuff we both do on the weekend, like cleaning the bathrooms and floors. It does take being organised during the week so we can do less on the weekend. I also try to fit in a home work out after getting dinners ready before jumping in the shower. Doesn't always happen cos I like to be in bed by 10!