That's so true about fabric softener reducing absorbancy of towels. I stay right away from the stuff... hate how it gunks up the machine.

maybe try some bi-carb soda.

I give my towels a good shake before line hanging. I'm stingy and don't use the tumble drier unless i have to.

i also quite like a stiff towel.... dries much better and is a great exfoliator... makes your skin feel great! Softness can be over-rated LOL