Okaay

DH's work clothes (including his singlets and socks) all go in together, I don't worry too much about whether they're inside out or not. Warm wash (on 'extra dirty', he gets filthy).

Towels, bedhseets, undies, DD's clothes and warm wash stuff (usually just 'around-the-house' clothes that I wear to bed etc) is all turned inside out and goes for a 'regular' warm wash cycle (I throw all that stuff in together, saves me doing separate loads with towels, then DD's stuff etc).

All my decent clothes and DH's casual clothes are black (I'm not kidding, I have like *one* white sundress and absolutely everything else I own is black, with the exception of a couple of pairs of jeans) so they get turned inside out, set on cold wash 'fast and light' cycle with a special laundry detergent for black clothing (instead of the regular powder I use for everything else). Some of the more delicate items (chiffon dresses etc) I pop in a lingerie bag to stop them getting treated too roughly in the machine (I'm far too lazy to handwash lol).

When hanging things out, towels or larger clothing items (shirts etc) go at the back to block the neighbours' view of my underwear (there's a church behind our fence haha, wouldn't want to offend anybody with the sight of my lacy lingerie!!), then DD's clothes and underwear in front. Large items get two pegs each, DD's little shirts and shorts get on peg in the middle. My underwear is turned right side out, and each pair gets a peg hanging it from one side (like at the hip, if that makes sense). Bras get pegged from just beside one cup to help stop them stretching (most of my bras are heavily padded so I try to even out the weight).
DH's casual shirts get hung from the bottom, jeans pegged at the waistband. My shirts and dresses get pegged at the shoulders or taken straight inside and hung on hangers to dry indoors (haaattteeee fading!!).
DH's work shirts get hung right-way-out, pegged at the shoulders, and again pants at the waistband.
I only share pegs between items if I'm doing another load of laundry and have run out of pegs, and then I'll only share them between things like towels and DD's 'spitrags' (cloth nappies I use for changemats and bibs), otherwise I leave the newly-washed laundry in the machine until the last load is dry and can come down


It's funny how we all have little quirks when it comes to doing the housework 'perfectly'!! DH taught me that you never fill up the second basin in the sink with hot water for rinsing, he just puts soapy dishes in the drainer and then pours hot water over everything until they're properly rinsed hahaha, something about hygiene and water going cold and getting filthy but yeah, now it's just habit and I hate seeing anybody rinse their dishes in a sink full of water!!