Wish I could do this. DH is constantly at me as to why I don't rest in the day if both girls asleep at same time when I only get 6 hours at night, well I can't because IF it happens, I lie there all tense because all I can think about something that needs doing. So I spend all day re-cleaning and tidying because after every meal or snack I'm back to square one and no way can I leave dishes on the bench or crumbs on the floor or the entire contents of the toy boxes out, give me another 5 years I'll probably be one of those incessant hand washers. It's really very unsatisfying - I'm sure your way is MUCH more sane.