Honestly, why do men (and in fact, women) worry so much at the thought of a beautiful human being knocking on their door (likely to be in their 20s and 30s) to say hello?!!!?! Is it that bad to offer life?!! And offer a childless helpless couple the chance of parenthood?!!!! geez louise! I'm braver than that...and thank God my egg donor friend-of-a-friend is too!!!!!!! Blessed are the selfless.