Just a quick update, we finally have some donor profiles to look at. We were emailed five profiles on Friday afternoon, and have shortlisted to three - but really we are trying to decide between two. More details in my blog (link in sig if interested). The main thing that we are tossing up is how much emphasis we should be placing on physical features of the donor. One is brown hair blue eyes like me, but the other is brown hair brown eyes and olive skin (although caucasian background). But everything on donor #2 is what we want. So if we are both fair, is olive skin an issue...
Not an issue for us I mean, but for the child themselves. Will that make them think they are more different or will it not matter for them? I know i can deal with anything myself, but i dont want to do something that could negatively impact our child as they grow up...
Such difficult decisions...