tarkine,
we went through a similar process when we first picked a donor his characteristics matched my DH so closely but unfortunately this donor wasn't proven and we had no success with him (probably lucky in a way as it turned out that I carry the cystic fybrosis gene and the donor hadn't been tested for it as he had donated before they increased the testing) we had to pick again and the next time round we weren't as lucky with DH's charateristics (we also didn't figure that blonde hair would turn up from reading our donor's information), but we wouldn't change ANYTHING Paige is quickly developing a strong character of her own and I know I can see a good mix of both of us in her, and reassure your DH that he will be so bonded with your bubba you still have the 9 mths of pg to get to know them and then the birth itself all awesomely bonding experiences but please be reassured that your DH will be the one who gets called "Dad, dad,dad" long before you get called "mum, mum,mum" if my experience is anthing to go by (go figure I think I do most of the work yet he gets the adoration!!!!)
how exciting for you both to be finally getting a step closer to your dreams, I am soooooo excited for you!!!