Blossom,

HUGE hugs it does take time to work through all the emotions. And myself and my hubby went through it. But we quickly came to the decision do this (sperm donor) or remain childless.

The only concern from my DH now is that will he be on the birth certificate. And the answer to that is YES of course.

Personally we have made the decision not to tell the children where they are exactly from.

But most people decide to tell their children they are from donor sperm.

The counsellor at fert First didnt say we had to and didnt say we shouldnt she supported us in our own decision.

I did tell her we would tell as I was scared I would be refused treatment. But I now know that she would have supported us either way even if we told her we weren't going to tell.

I hope you find this journey a little easier soon


redlady