Hoping for a Christmas Miracle for my donor family
We've been on a bit of an egg donor journey, now over 12 months with an amazing couple hoping deperately for their second beautiful baby.....
Two cycles, the last one ending in hyperstimulation, bleeding & a hospital stay for me but with eight embryo's at the end for my couple. Unfortunately, they have now just implanted the very last embryo from that cycle......
I won't do another cycle for them, the last one had such devastating consequences for my family with the hyperstim, time off work & the long process to feel well again that I just can't bring myself to risk it again.
So, this is it for our journey with them. If this embyro doesn't grow, then I'm not sure if they are emotionally or financially able to start again with another donor.
I am crossing all my fingers & toes that this little one is it, that this little one grows & completes their family. All i want is a baby for them to cherish, they are both such wonderful people & it would be so unfair of the universe to leave them with empty arms.
Please keep them in your thoughts & prayers for a Christmas miracle. Blood test is on the 3rd, so I will update then.
what a fantastic gift you are giving these people. You are such an amazing person for helping someone get their dream. Really hope that last little one is a sticky one.
I hope it works for them hun, and what an incredibly generous gift you have given them, good on you. Fingers and toes and everything in between is tightly crossed!!
Just absolutely gutted for them. I really, truly thought that this would be it, their christmas miracle. Ten healthy embryo's all up, over 12 months of trying with an egg donor and 6 years of cycle after cycle....
She asked if i would do one more & I had to say no. After hospital last time & months to recover, it just wasn't a good thing to put my family through again.
I just feel so blessed that we got to share in this journey with two amazing people we never would have met otherwise. I hope this will allow them to move on & accept that they have tried everything possible & to enjoy the little boy they are so blessed to have already.
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