Dh is actually better with him with the home work. I tend to get annoyed faster. But DH is also a little obsessed I think about him learning to read so rather then putting a dot & moving on to the next word he has to read he sits & makes him do it till he gets it. Not in a mean nasty way, but he will sit & encourage him to sound it out etc. DS usually (eventually) gets it. But I think he is spending too much time working on each word.

We do need to be more strict with the routine. But DH isn't home at a set time each day so it makes it hard.

Rewards for homework I don't think will work well. He is at a stage where he "Doesn't care!!" So I know if I was to say do this blah blah & get that, if he doesn't want to do it, he will just say I don't care. He is a spoilt brat at times LOL!

He loves computer games. So yes any suggestions there would be great!