Thank everyone for your opinions. I guess I thought about dropping a kindy day because Polish school is just like kindy but in a different language.

Curly -DH won't budge on the Polish school issue. Our compromise is to start her this year before school starts just to gauge if she likes it. If she doesn't like going then I'll pulling her out regardless of what DH says.

Ok so I've decided to keep doing everything but I am going to miss a session of each on a rotating roster. Hopefully that will give us a bit of everything without over stretching DD and the rest of us