Gigi, just a quick note as i have a babe needing to sleep. I wanted to let you know that my experience has never been with parents that judged regarding money. There was quite a few single mums at the school my boys went to, some with very little money. We also went through stages of not being sure if we had the petrol money, i never felt like we were disadvantaged because of it. Will write more later on bringing Steiner into the home