Urgent teacher advice needed

[AliBaby]

Thanks Odette.

I might try and catch mum tomorrow and have chat abo it as it needs to be followed up on quickly. great suggestions. Thankyou so much.

[krysalyss]

Hi Alibaby - I am not a teacher but was reading an awesome parenting book the other day by Robin Grille and I guess in some things the two have similarities. It was talking about how consequences need to be a logical consequence of the inappropriate action. For example, if he has ripped the wall decorations down then he needs to spend his lunchtime helping you put it back up etc. It helps them to relate real life reactions to their actions. Secondly to avoid shaming (even inadvertantly) as this makes them act out even more and can set up a bit of a powerstruggle in an attempt to get their pride back IYKWIM. But ultimately you do need to talk to the parents to help him get back on the right track if he is having problems. Not sure if this helped but good luck with it.