ISBN for the book is ISBN1440649596 - if you need to order it from a bookshop. Check with your local library network (and in the search field see if you can search through an extended library system - I didn't realise till late in the piece that I could order books from libraries all over the state, with my previous service, and I think with my new one!) as well.
I know that embarrassed feeling! Then thinking "well, I can't explain embarrassment to my child who just needs to do a poo in a dignified manner, now that she knows how to do it and it's all she knows". Sometimes I think that it 'might be easier' to put DD in a nappy, then slap myself and realise that's silly - she hasn't been in one on over 6 months, so why would I put her back in one? Plus, she can hold on for ages till we find a loo, so an 'accident' is really my own oversight - and rarely happens now, anyway.
She's only really having accidents at FDC, and she's only been twice, the second time she used the potty later in the day, so it's a matter of her comfort levels in care. She's taken to care very well, and the carer is happy to just change her into fresh clothes and offer her the potty
Good one on catching the poo and enlightening someone!!